stephen alder was born in cambridge on August 19, 1957. He is much loved and will always be remembered by all his friends and family.
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stephenwas born in cambridge on 19th of august 1959. he met julie and they married on 8th of october 1977. they had 3 children nicola gary and hayley. they also have 6 grandchildren who he loved very much. stephen was a very hard worker and always provided everthing for his loving family.he then had many years of poor health but always pulled through his illnesses.he was a true fighter.he passed peacefully away at home on 8th of june. we will all miss him so much.there is so much to say about this special man but i would be here forever.we love you steve r.i.p.xxxx
stephen loved life and he loved his family.he loved football fishing golf bowling and watching his comedy dvds. he loved holidays and was kind enogh to take his family on many.lots abroad and to his beloved caister. he always took them on lovely days out.he was the kindest husband and dad.he also loved to buy gifts for julie.he tried to do his best for them all.and he did. he is loved by all his family.they miss him so much.
stephen alder was born on August 19, 1957 in cambridge.Sadly passed away on 8/6/2007 r.i.p Stephen x
stephen would have loved to have celebrated his 50th birthday on aug 19th he so wanted to make it.we celebrated it for him doing all the things he would have loved. we would have also celebrated our 30th anniversary on oct 8th.i still celebrated it for us doing and buying special things. two special dates never to be forgotten.
2008 is now here 2007 gone but not forgotten. the year we lost a very special man the main man in our family.2007 was a horrible year but i am so sorry you will not be here to share 2008 with us. a year you will never see.we love you steve and always will.
christmas is now here and it is hard without you. we are all trying our best to get through and make it a special day for the kids.we will be thinking of steve our special man all day. love and miss you.
it is becoming really hard now without my lovely man. i miss him so much and so wish he was here so i could cuddle him and tell him that i love him. i hope he knew that i loved him so much. he was my life and my best friend. i am trying to get on the best i can but sometimes its hard and i do silly things which i then regret. i do get cross with what he done but then feel guilty for being cross. its a cicle which goes round and round. i just want to know he is here with me. steve i love you and cant wait to see you again my heart is broken. xxxxxx julie xxxxxx
well its been over 6 months now without my special man. i miss him more than ever. i am really not well at the moment and need him to look after me. i hope he is there somwhere. today i have been to his special garden and decorated it for xmas it looks really special i hope he can see it he would be proud of us. we will miss him with us this year but know he will be around. steve i love and miss you more than ever julie xxxxxx
its been 23 long lonely weeks without you. im not doing good. doing things i shouldent.you would hate me. i hate myself. i miss you so much my head hurts and i feel sick. i just want you here come home please i want to cuddle you and keep you warm. last year you were happy at the cottage what went wrong? i will always love you no matter what.xxxxjuliexxxx
its that time of the month again the 8th.this means we have been for our monthly trip to the chapel to put our prayers on the tree for you. it is so cold and windy but no matter what the weather is we will still light your candle every night. you would have hated this cold weather. you were always cold. i hope it is warm where you are and god is wrapping you in his arms to keep you safe and warm. it is very late now you would kill me if you knew i was still up. dont like tonight the wind is making funny noises in the house. wish you were here i would feel a lot safer. miss you sooooooo much. xxxxxx
today is bonfire night not that you would have realy wanted to do anything.we went to your special garden and set off some rockets one with a letter on. the grandchildren lit sparklers and we put some in your garden.you have been surrounded by lots of fireworks where you are resting. we try to do our best to remember you on these special days. we all love you.
well it is 21 weeks now since i lost my lovely steve. i miss him now more than ever. the funny thing is i still cannot believe he has gone. he has only gone to a better place a place where ther is no pain and suffering. a lovely place where he is with the family and friends untill we all meet again. he is waiting for us and watching over us all. we all love you so much xxxxxxxxxx
today the 29th we went and planted new plants on steves special garden. it looks really nice and colourfull.it is now ready for the winter.not looking forward to it though.the cemetery gates shut at 4.hurry up spring.well whatever the weather we will still be at the garden every day to visit steve and make sure all is ok. love and miss you j xx
its starting to get really cold now and we are waiting to re-arange steves special garden for the winter.we are going to set some bulbs and plant some nice winter plants and we will carry on making it look really special like steve is to us. we love him very very much xxxx
just added some more pics today of my lovely man. doing his no 1 passion of painting god i will miss him doing mine. cooking xmas dinner at hayleys.eating his chips by the sea in kent.he loved it there. and me by the new memorial for him at caister.steve we love you so much julie xxxxxx
julie is having a bad day.things are worse missing steve to much.cant believe he has gone. i want him to come home.put his slippers on watch tele and enjoy his fry ups and his cup a soups. lay on the sofa and crack up at his comedy dvds.miss you and love you always j xx
yesterday oct 15th we went to caister steves favourite holiday place where we all have such happy memories with the family. we made a memorial to him at the caister lifeboat site. the sun was shining and we had a lovely day.i am sure steve was there with us in spirit. we love you steve xxxx
today oct 8th is our 30th wedding anniversary.new flowers have been placed on steves special garden and cards. a prayer will be put on the tree in the hospital tonight.we are all missing him so much. the angels are looking after him untill we can all be with him and look after him again.thinking of him on this our very special day.
my steve the best man ever so loving kind and generous i love him and miss him so much iknow your shining down on me from heaven love you babe xxxx
I started to build my Tribute to stephen alder today.
Still cannot believe my darling steve has gone. I miss him so much. I miss all the things we did together. Yes i have moved on a bit and done things i regret because my head has been so mixed up and i get real cross that steve is no longer with me because it seems just so unfair. Why did he have to leave us so young? I miss him so much and would do anything to have him home and give him a cuddle again. xxxx